Most guys like them young

Monday, 26 January 2009

Most guys like them young

A friend of mine was telling me he wished he had it in him to go after young girls. I was sort of confused as to what he meant by "young girls" and he said a little bit older than legal. My friend isn't that old--mid 20's, but that didn't make me feel a little sick.

"Really? Like 18 year olds?"

"Yeah... more like between 17-20" he clarified.

"What do you mean you wished you had it in you?"

"I feel bad because they are so young and they don't understand shit."

Apparently, many guys are interested in getting with younger girls because everyone within earshot suddenly began participating in this conversation and it progressed into everyone somehow explaining why they prefer girls so young. It all came down to four main reasons:
1. They are better looking and have softer/nicer skin.
2. They are likely to be "cleaner" than their older counterparts.
3. They are easy.
4. They are easy to maintain and even easier to get rid of.
Sometimes I wonder why I am even surprised by what guys really think. These reasons they had were so straight forward, simple and made so much sense.

I was curious of course and asked them if they if they had been with any such girls recently. I mean, these were some of my closest guy friends who I talked to pretty often. We grew up together but sort of went out separate ways in college. Everyone looked at this one guy and started laughing. He was probably the only person in the group who I never liked since I always thought he was always shady. He's thirty and sleeping around with girls who are around 20. All he does is go around meeting these girls, flirt with them and hook up. He keeps them around for no more than a couple of weeks and then just tells them it's over.

I don't really think what he does is really that messed up because it takes two to tango. At least pertaining to the topic, age isn't really an issue because he can get older girls too. He just prefers them young for the reasons stated above--mostly reason #3. It makes sense because when you are already working, you already have the financial resources to boost up whatever lack confidence you have. Young girls don't want the money--they want the attention. Buying them drinks, flowers, or things like that is inexpensive. It makes them feel good because they crave that kind of attention, especially from an older guy. Older girls are a lot harder because these tricks don't work on them. They can buy their own drinks.

"Young girls have so much more to offer without all the shit that comes along in a relationship. You don't have to buy them anything expensive and they will still be all over you." The guy's an asshole, but don't let just let his track record tell you that. I guess the only bright side is that he doesn't go after the girls who aren't legal yet.